Kansas City, Springfield, St. Louis
Your wedding is the beginning of your story together. Engagement is a meaningful time to deepen your connection, strengthen communication, and explore the hopes, values, and goals that will shape your life as a couple.
Through premarital counseling, we help you build the tools and understanding needed to create a healthy, fulfilling relationship that continues to grow long after your wedding day.
“We are so thankful to have had Walter as one of our amazing wedding vendors. The package offering of counseling is what completely sold us for his services. The counseling sessions were insightful, challenging, inspiring and honestly quite a bit of fun.”
TIANNA K

Build a strong marriage united in joy.
Strengthen your connection and create a foundation for lasting love.
Available throughout Kansas City, Springfield, St. Louis, surrounding areas, or online. Travel fees may apply.
Explore your family dynamics and discover how they impact your relationship.
Clarify your values, including your financial ones.
Openly discuss what’s deeply personal in a safe and non-judgemental setting.
Included with Uplift Your Ceremony & Marriage / Ceremony Blessings, Joyous Future Wedding Officiant Packages.
Identify what makes a meaningful foundation for your relationship.
Learn more about one another and how to communicate in an authentic way.
$300/2-hr session
For couples who want premarital resources without the counseling service.
Couple’s assessment*
Two workbooks*
Conversation cards*
Discussion guide*
*Read FAQs below for more information.
$250
“We had a few counseling sessions with Walter in which he provided guidance and food for thought on topics that we may have not considered otherwise. He was incredibly easy to speak with and his wisdom and knowledge were valuable and greatly appreciated!”
KRISTINE
Reach out and we’ll schedule an initial call to learn more about you as a couple—your story, your goals, and what you hope to strengthen together.
From there, we’ll help you decide which option feels like the right fit, whether that’s a counseling session, the Home Study Package, or both.
Together, we’ll create a thoughtful, supportive experience designed around your unique relationship. Each session offers practical tools, meaningful conversations, and deeper understanding to help you build a strong foundation for lasting love.
"Gets to Know You"
“Walter takes the time to get to know you as a couple and offers multiple packages to accommodate your needs.”
- Monica R
"Worth It"
“Those counseling sessions with Walter were well worth it prior to our wedding.”
- Justin E
"Amazing Guidance"
“Walter gave us amazing advice and guidance that we’ll use throughout our marriage. If you choose to do premarital sessions with him, you will not regret it.”
- Paige V
Premarital counseling is a proactive investment in your marriage before it begins. It gives you and your partner a dedicated space to explore your values, communication styles, family dynamics, financial expectations, and life goals. Couples who engage in premarital counseling enter marriage with a stronger foundation, better communication tools, and a clearer shared vision for their life together.
The earlier the better! We recommend starting premarital counseling as soon as you're engaged, ideally at least a few months before your wedding date. This gives you enough time to work through sessions thoughtfully without feeling rushed. That said, it's never too late. Even couples closer to their wedding date can benefit from the process.
Sessions are tailored to each couple, but commonly explored topics include communication styles and active listening, family dynamics and how they shape your relationship, values clarification including financial values, conflict resolution, and what you each want and expect from married life. We create a safe, non-judgmental space where both partners feel comfortable exploring even the most personal topics.
Yes! Premarital counseling sessions are already included in the Uplift Your Ceremony & Marriage and Ceremony Blessings, Joyous Future wedding officiant packages. If you've booked The Necessities or Simple & Sweet packages, you can add counseling sessions at $300 per two-hour session.
The Home Study Premarital Package is a self-guided resource designed for couples to explore important areas of their relationship together, at their own pace. It includes a couple’s assessment, premarital workbooks, conversation cards, and a discussion guide.
The workbooks guide couples through meaningful exploration of:
Communication · Conflict · Personality · Balancing “I” & “We” · Commitment · Expectations · Family & Friends · Forgiveness · Free Time · Intimacy · Money · Parenting · Roles · Spirituality
The assessment and workbooks go hand in hand, creating a structured foundation for your exploration. The conversation cards encourage meaningful discussion and reflection, while the discussion guide helps you navigate the materials and exercises together.
The Home Study Premarital Package gives couples the opportunity to explore the foundation of their relationship together, at their own pace and in the comfort of home. The package is designed to encourage meaningful conversations around communication, expectations, values, intimacy, conflict, finances, and other important areas of married life.
Rather than simply checking a box before the wedding, the experience is designed to help you better understand one another, identify areas of strength and growth, and begin building the communication skills and understanding that support a strong, resilient marriage.
Premarital counseling sessions are guided by us directly, giving you the benefit of our professional training, personal insight, and real-time feedback as you work through topics together. The Home Study Package is self-directed, making it a great option for couples who want a structured starting point or a complement to their counseling sessions. Many couples find that doing both gives them the most well-rounded preparation.
Premarital counseling is available both in person and online, so you can engage in whatever format works best for your schedule and location. Travel fees may apply for in-person sessions depending on your area.
It depends on what you're looking for! If you'd like the Home Study Package, you can purchase it directly online and we'll ship it right to you; no consultation needed. If you're interested in premarital counseling sessions with us, simply reach out by phone or schedule an initial conversation to find the approach that's right for you. Of course, if you'd like to do both, we'd love to talk through how to combine them for the best experience.


Contact Us
Office Hours:
Daily M-Sat. 11 am – 7 pm
Sun. noon - 5 pm
Where We Serve
Kansas • Missouri • Southern Illinois • Northern Arkansas
Serving couples within approximately a three-hour travel radius of our primary service areas.

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